Monthly Archives: July 2011

Saying “I love you”


I say I love you a lot and ever since September 11, 2001 I say it even more. That day made me  realize how important it is to express no matter what. Through therapy I noticed that my mother, when … Continue reading

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Does not being able to give a straight answer equal lying?


I find it fascinating that society can become totally immune to certain behavior. One such, is the inability to give a straight answer. Have you noticed how some people just can’t do it? You know like politicians. I used to … Continue reading

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Technology.. Ah HA!


This week has been filled with technological challenges. If you know me you would put your hands over your face and probably sob. I know just enough to realize that I don’t enough, but I try anyway. Even though I am … Continue reading

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Jason update: July 29th


This morning I am going to post Jenn’s words on Jason. Please continue to pray for them and sending of love, healing and energy. Also seriously pray for Jenn as she is not a morning person! The parade of professionals … Continue reading

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Jason update 7 28 11


Due to pain in his back and difficulty breathing Jason was moved back to Karmanos from rehab over the weekend. It was determined that one of his lungs collasped and a chest tube has been inserted. This is due to … Continue reading

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Food as punishment


Food is a complicated issue for me. One way that I use it is as punishment. When I feel that I am a failure I will eat. You would think it is for comfort, but it truly isn’t. When I … Continue reading

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I’m a Joiner!


Most of my life I have had a very small close circle of friends. With the situation I grew up in trust is a hard thing for me. Wait! In the past trust has been a hard thing for me. … Continue reading

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A strange step towards dating….


I have taken a positive step towards dating. I have dropped the dating site that I was on. How many people have stopped and done the “Um, Mary?” It is a nice site, not one of the major names, but … Continue reading

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What I have learned about grieving


When my brother died my best friend and I discussed starting a business to teach seminars on dealing with death and grief. We were planning on offering the classes to companies. The idea came about after on my first day … Continue reading

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Societal norms, emotions and violence


I’m disturbed by what I see more and more on the news. The fights among young people and acceptance of violence is scary. I want to float an idea here. My observations of late are that the only emotions that … Continue reading

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