There are things I miss about dating, but I am not sure if it is so much dating or me. See if this makes sense.

I miss kissing in the rain. I am a bit of a free spirit when I listen to my inner voice. I love kissing in the rain. Not hurricane rain, but that rain that is gentle and soothing.

Holding hands out of the blue. Just that sudden connection that is so natural and comforting. It says “I love you”.

Cooking together is so fun. I love doing that. Cooking, talking and a glass of wine plus the casual touch that means you are connecting.

Exploring the world together is a biggie. Be it through the written word, movies, music, art, travel or sharing thoughts.

Surprising my lover! Always fun.

When I have that moment of intense insecurity having the strong arms wrapped around me, but willing to let me go when they know they have helped.

Arguing and making up.

Having that person that will help hold you up when needed and that I can do the same too.

Facing those moments that you think are going to break you apart and realizing that they can’t because you are together.

I have never had all of these with just one man, but maybe someday.